Do White Girls Like Asian Guys? (AMWF)

do you white girls like Asian guys
insider I wanted to record this video today because for those of you who’ve
been following us for many years you may have seen the video that ended up
getting tons of views titled this exact topic it’s since been removed but I’ve
realized a lot of my personal clients were going through relationship issues and
they had some stories that was preventing them from moving forwards and
succeeding in terms of love so that’s why I wanted to rerecord this because
things have changed times have changed society has changed and also my
viewpoint a viewpoint has changed as well and this is why Toma is back and
we’re gonna be answering this question once and for all and putting a
close to this chapter let me ask you Toma do white girls like
Asian guys tell me and we just click stop after that right now we’ll
elaborate of course sorry um I do think that it’s not about the race to put it
simply personally I never thought gonna end up with an asian guy as I never felt
like I had someone why is that I think it’s because of the stereotype I had in
my mind about Asian guys as you actually were the first Asian guy that I’ve met
and dated so oh no I met somebody in university but I didn’t date them but
yeah I never felt like Asian guys were my type because I had the sort of
stereotype in my head that Asian guys are really shy and all the interested is
their computer and everything to do with numbers and computers and all of that
because I didn’t see many of them like socializing with other girls going to
the clubs I’m seeing them more like studying
like with the heads down and really likes soaked into their computers sounds like me I think
it’s kind of true to a certain extent in terms of loving computers I do love my tech I gotta say
but definitely have changed myself because for those of you then in my
background I used to be an extremely shy ever since I was pretty much growing up
I was suffering from social anxiety disorder meaning I was homebound every
single day I got addicted to video games as a result and I loved I suppose
technology I’m not sure why I’m from Seoul South Korea so maybe that’s partly
the reason I have no idea but I struggled with relationship for most of
my life because I never interacted with girls I would have never approached
Toma or spoken to Toma back in the days but once I began to develop my
personal development things really transformed for me so would you say then
white girls like asian guys then or what what’s your answer in terms of that I
think I do think that it’s a very unfair to hide behind the race I think what girls
really like girls like the confidence girls like somebody who you know it’s
fun to hang around with and this sort of ask questions they seem interested it’s
more to do with the confidence and personality more than the race um of
course they’re always gonna be girls that not gonna like one reason or
another there’s like girls I’m never gonna date black guy asian guy or sometimes
even the white guys is that maybe or I would say it depends on the person you need to do
like in part 2 video to answer that yeah I do think it depends on the person and
how you carry yourself do you do you like the way you are are you confident
in your own skin because if you are not and if you don’t put any sort of effort
to approach a girl and you don’t put any effort in terms of like developing
yourself and me gonna becoming best version of you it doesn’t matter which
race you are it’s not something that girls will be attracted to yeah I think
it’s just attraction is a choice that’s why I discovered from my life because
I’ve had a period of my life where every single approach I ever attempted and I’m so
scary trying to do so it just kept on flopping failing failing failing but the
more I just kept on focusing on me in terms of my growth and just working on
growing myself into the best best version of myself and letting go of all
of that shyness and social anxiety and all about sadness I was going through back
in my dark times I’ve realized the more I kept and worked on me and getting my
character the more I just found women were just I suppose wanting me to approach
them because you’ll find when you seek love you always find this quite kind of
hard to find love but when you aren’t looking for it for example you’ve just
fell into a relationship you’ll notice all of sudden left right and center
people want to approach you girls want to date you it’s because you got to
realize when you’ve worked on you got the cup full that’s when you’re the most
attractive as an individual and that’s not determined by your race and I think
it’s crazy how the whole a AMWF community talks about this topic in this way
because race has not been a factor in my life race has been
yes sometimes there’s an objection a girl says I don’t like Asian guys or
whatever maybe but then what do I do I sell myself better and I show I’m not
the typical stereotype so it’s all again based upon what you’re saying it’s based
upon yourself and I think people Asian men especially if that’s you you gotta
get off your story yeah get off the story of blaming society get
off your story of saying oh but you don’t understand the western media
realize things are changing but even if it isn’t changing you gotta take
control of your life and that only happens when you stop being a victim of
the circumstances and I remember when I was younger I used to always complain
always just justify always to say many reasons why I can’t take action in life
you either have reasons or results you gotta choose yeah so why would you say
asian guys could be attractive to white girls what do they need to have in terms
of equality just so we can give them some golden nuggets and we’ll wrap up
from there I personally think what Asian guys really have is like the strong
manners when it comes to like treating the girl the right way so you want us to
over amplify that well I didn’t say over amplify that but I think it’s also
show up in your best light I think because you guys are really handsome but
if you don’t put yourself together firstly like in terms of grooming then
nobody is gonna see that so what should you focus on terms of grooming to make
sure you well firstly clothes that fit you um I’m so sick and tired of were
like two jeans they’re baggy and dirty and all of that like pay more attention
to the way you look because if you want to attract the pretty girl do you think
that somebody who’s looking after themselves I’m gonna be attracted by
somebody who just like puts whatever on themselves isn’t it it’s the same thing
so true yeah so I think if you are looking at more like you know that type
of girls that look after themselves you need to do that as well but but more
than looks I think work on improving your confidence on on improving yourself
I think that is something that’s really important because if you’re happy with
the way you are and you happy in your own skin then it doesn’t matter which
race you are like you you already like them said you’re a cupful and that’s
what we’re looking for we we always are looking for people that are interesting
that are fun and they feel confident and comfortable with the way they are yeah
how you should picture it since I assume you’re Asian guy watching this imagine
you get your dream car that could be a Ferrari or Lamborghini I’m sure you’re
not gonna allow that to rot in the garage what will you do you give it the
best polish every single day you may take some selfies with it you make it
seem really nice right but that’s the exterior that car however doesn’t mean
anything unless it’s got that engine as well and that engine is you your
personal growth the exteriors the way you show up okay so you’re gonna make
sure you work on yourself outer world but then you gotta master that inner
world as well and both of those is important you can’t just go out there
and just sudden it tuck on a t-shirt and just hope that things will be okay
because if you’re aiming for eight nine ten in terms of the looks in terms of
the girl you want to attract you gotta make sure you present yourself as an
eight nine ten and sometimes just bit of clothing Toma’s specialty is personal
branding by the way and she shows different clients how just the different
clothes just changed entirely the way you look so work on that the skin care
the hair all of this by the way I had to transform because back in the days just
give some idea because I was addicted to a lot of drugs when I was growing up I
wouldn’t even brush my teeth every day oh my God it was it’s funny I suppose looking back
now at the time I just didn’t care about my life I just was addicted to a lot of
the hardcore different level drugs which I don’t get to today but you could just
tell from my photo that I just didn’t care about myself and as a result guess
what there’s a great saying goes you’re constantly letting other people know how
to treat you by the way you treat yourself and so that’s why people didn’t
care about me they didn’t even give me a job when I was looking for a job
in fact i was only the only job I could get was a toilet
cleaner at the time and so it always goes to show the exterior world is
important exterior but then you’ve gotta have that engine fuel that engine
give it the right health give it the right nutrition in terms of your mind
and nutrition you must master this everything changes and so if you want me
to talk more about this insider I’m more than happy to share with you the
transformation I had to go through just let me know in the comments box below
because your feedback helps me to create like specific topics and so forth
now Toma if yours to leave everybody with one final message in terms of
putting an end to this chapter once and for all what would it be I would
just say that you know it’s very lazy to hide behind the label and to hide behind
your race and now blame just your race why girls are not attracted to you like
look at yourself and think like are you doing the best from your sight so you
get different results because if you’re not doing the best and you just
expecting all those results to come it doesn’t work this way in order for you
to receive something you have to give something yourself so I think stop
hiding behind your race and start working on the best version of yourself
and start becoming the change that you wanna see in the world
definitely this video for me means a lot because firstly it’s what started
success insider I created these videos to help out my younger self and a lot of
people who approached me they look like my younger self at the time and this
video was what ended up taking successes out his channel just on a whole another
level getting hundreds of thousands of views and at the same time this this
video is almost like I’m speaking to my younger self because I’ve been through
this I know what it’s like to be on the other side of my life where my health is
deteriorating and just is an absolute mess so my advice is this is the advice
I would give to my younger self if I could speak to him you gotta believe in
yourself and realize that nobody is to blame
the only person is actually you right now and you gotta believe in your
capabilities that you can get yourself out but it’s only you that has to decide
this nobody else don’t wait for the world to transform you gotta transform
don’t wait for things to get better you gotta get better now and this takes a
firm decision decide today you’re gonna work on you decide today you’ll
become obsessed with personal development once you mastered this once
you’re a master mind set and heart set game over you’ve mastered life so go out
there insider and do your absolute best if you enjoy today’s video be sure
to like this video and comment below in regards to your biggest takeaway and if
you want us to create more videos in terms of this is a little bit off-topic
but I understand that a lot of you high achievers you do suffer from
relationship maybe in terms of maintaining relationship or getting into
a relationship so I’m more than happy to provide you with whatever value you need
and I’m here to serve born to serve okay so as always insider follow your heart my
friend and take action and go live the life you’re truly born to live I’ll see
you very soon my friend take care

Stephen Childs


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  2. Asians guys or gals are usually shy… no problem for women cuz white male will inititate contact first but not asian men

  3. The fact that this topic is a topic is hilarious. Worthwhile people like likeminded worthwhile people. Everything else is just noise.

  4. Stereotype states that Asian guys and Black women are at the bottom when it comes to desirability …Asian Women and White guys are towards the top… BUT I have encountered most undesirable Asian Women and most desirable Black women…. goes to show you how arbitrary and nonsense it is

  5. Some white girls start to like Asian guy. Because they like kpop, jpop, cpop??? WTF

  6. Let me be honest right quick, in the future will be White Men marry to Asian Women and White Women marry to Asian Men cause Asian people are very biggest smartest people in the world that why White people love Asian people a lot.

  7. I think a real girl like only this kind of men who stand by her in any circumstance. I think if you love someone the skin colour the religion is not matter if you really love someone truly you accept the good side and bad side of this person. But sad think is today's day no true love. women are after man's money and man are after woman looks outside beauty. no one care about love. In true love is lot's of respect but again sad thing in todays world everything else is tha but true love and respect is missing. Empty hearts.♡

  8. Ukrainian and Russian girls like Chinese guy very much ,It has to do with American politics

  9. Haha I'm most talkative when I'm around friends..but near to unknown people I barely talk..

  10. It's kinda true that white girls don't like Asian guys but it's just because asian men have got the kind of quiet typical asian personalities that non asian women don't approve of. I can see why this guy was able to marry a white woman because he has a fun personality and he definitely isn't shy and insecure like the stereotypical asian. If Asians were more open like white people I bet loads of them would be able to marry outside of ther race. White girls are completely open to dating black guys so that should also be the case with asians.

  11. Mate, you have my respect. You are respectable because you know working hard is the only way for guys to be successful. Unlike those libtards who brainwash Asian guys into playing race card towards white people when things don’t go their way

  12. At the end of the day it all boils down to what that girl you going after likes. Period. Some white girls are open and would date an Asian man and some wouldn't. Everyone has what they like. So your best best is to just feel it out. Try to flirt a little bit and if you get a positive reaction then continue it a little further. There's honestly no way to really know unless you talk to her. All white girls aren't the same. Yes confidence and how you dress is important but even after that it's honestly down to the girl and if she's into you.

  13. My white friend told me every guy’s dream is to date an asian girl lmao

  14. Not where I live, dating as an Asian guy has some very big challenges such as confidence, money, and trying to satisfy all the preconceive expectations of the women of today. No thanks……………

  15. My past is similar to yours, you're a strong person tbh.

  16. This channel has exploded! i remember when it was still 6k. Very well done!

  17. His right, stay confident, show confidence and you can be with anyone willing to accept you. In my personal experiences white girls are pretty accepting as long as your confident and not going over the top too much

  18. Yes we do "." 😊 Thank you Kdramas and Netflix (I just needed to have the lucky opportunity to learn more about the existence of an entire culture)….but true that, living your best life is attractive.

  19. As a white female, I've always had a preference for asian guys, but this video is 100% true. I'm not just gonna be attracted to the first asian man I see on the bus. It's the same as any race, I'd want him clean, smelling good, looking presentable, and most importantly he needs respect confidence and kindness!

  20. I think the Asian guys in this video means Asian oriental like Japanese, Korean, chinese and not for South East Asian, west Asian, or even South Asian guys…

  21. my boyfriend is Asian, just be yourself, don't wear like gay, build up muscle, don't look like BTS

  22. I found small —-. Either Im use to big or Im not looking right. I think the asian men are gorgeous creatures. Money does not matter to me. Their confidence is keen. Yes sexual satisfaction is important to me. Their manners are beautiful, the ones I've dated were very respectful. Don't worry about your clothes, you guys look so sexy. For me its that.

  23. I sure hope so, because I’m so attracted to cute white girls and hope to date one one day…or ANY race outside of Filipino in that matter. Have beautiful mixed kids

  24. I personally find Asian men more attractive, my only problem is that I'm too shy to talk to most people, so unless they talk to me first, I can't talk to them ㅋㅋㅋㅋ

  25. The Asian here is actually refers to Eastern Asians(China, Japan, Korea, Mongolia), also plus Thailand and Singapore.

  26. I have always been attracted to Asian men… not easy meeting a man of Asian heritage 💔

  27. All white girls I know that married an Asian guy have a miserable life because of their culture

  28. It’s just when get dub 3 time by three while girl because of being Asian😭

  29. I am a black guy and i love to se
    race mixing if you can find love in different race go for it love have no boundaries 😎

  30. The funny irony is that when Asian girls tried to trade us up, they get the mediocre white guys (and are very unhappy), but when white girls go for Asian guys, they pick the highest value guys in the litter, so Asian girls lose out because of their hypergamous nature, then tried to shame us Asian guys for dating outside our race. Asian girls are the biggest narcissistic cunts. In the end, white girls wins.

  31. I'm an asian guy. I am not a perfect man, but I can make anyone happy whenever its white, asian, black.

  32. Then why is she clearing her throat at the beginning of the video? Hmm , might b a gut reaction…

  33. White men hate u white women the best and coolest white men go for Asian women makes me laugh when Asian guys say losers white men go for Asian women nah white men can get white women but just choose not to

  34. I just realized that it look a lot better when Asian guys and white girl date

  35. 0:00 yes!! dark coloured hair and eyes is so handsome T_T but really if you’re just a kind guy and you show interest and show you care then I’ll fall for you 99% of the time asian or not (it’s just i have a soft spot for asian men in particular ;)) so please don’t be shy there are western girls out there that will like you too be confident and kind and you’ll get a girl soon : D

  36. Asking if white girls like Asian guys already lowers yourself. Just go for it and find out.

  37. Interracial dating from what I see in the USA is still more of a white man with Asian women than Asian men with white women but this seems to be reversing since the last decade. Asian men with white women is trending up and white men with Asian women is trending down. I hear more Asian women that dated white men turning back to being attracted to Asian men. This trend of Asian women being less attracted to white men now than they were a decade ago and more white women being attracted to Asian men know more than they were a decade ago is probably due to a number of factors. One factor is that Asian men are much more numerous today in the USA than a decade ago with much more Asian immigration than a decade ago. Another thing is the rapid increase in size of Asian men, especially in height from previous generations. Seems like most young adult southeast Asian men are between 5'8" to 5'10" and most young adult east Asian men seem to be between 5'10" to 6'0" and Asian men over 6'0" are very common with east Asian men and not that rare with southeast Asian men as well. They seem actually taller than many white ethnicities because most Italian, Irish and other southern and eastern European Americans are mostly between 5'7" to 5'9". Tall white American men tend to be of northern European ancestry but these white men are a minority of the white male population in many areas of the USA, especially in the northeastern states. With Asian men being more numerous and taller today than in previous generations plus having a higher level of education and income on average than white men there degree of attractiveness is increasing with white women and Asian women that considered dating white men in the past is trending down because of the reasons that I described above.

  38. It's a shame stereotypes don't always see us positive, of course I'm bias, but we have such a unique and beautiful culture, food, entertainment, even certain genetic features: ability to look younger than our age, less body hair, and exotic.

  39. I love this message! Definitely a couples’ goal in looks and confidents 🙏🙏🏻

  40. I am an Asian man if any white girl love Asian then please contact me.
    From a poor Asian boy.

  41. Asian Men are by far the most attractive in my opinion. It's a shame that there are not many at all who live in my area…

  42. This video is bs. Why is it always the men not being good enough? White women need to get on MY level. Nothing is wrong with me as an asian man, but rather something is wrong with you as white women. If you aren't willing to be with me at my worst, you don't get to be with me at my best.

  43. most of asian&white couples I've seen were decent and good looking (specifically successful) unlike black&white couples (mostly the girl is overweight if not trash looking wearing 5kg make up)

  44. I am sorry ladies (both beautiful Dutch curly blonde, they never angry, very loving cheerful character and great hearts. the one I met in 2005 and 2006) not that I ran away and disappeared.
    I just have no one to talk to about this matter and many other matter a mother-son talk, this is just me not having mother since 2,8 years old.
    Yet, my complicated life path around the world on my own since she passed away with my younger sister just after her birth. You all deserve the best. I am just nothing.

  45. shut up, everybody said like this, if you want solve the problem, you have to face the problem, don't lie.

  46. From my personal observation? I once overheard some White girls at a library saying how they'll never date an Asian guy, but the moment an ATTRACTIVE Asian guy passed by? "Oh, my God… he's cute!" So, it's not about race after all, it seems.

  47. I’d say most white girls don’t like Asians – but a small percentage do like Asians – which is the same of all races

  48. I do agree with her there. It's not all about where you are from. If you like each other then go for it.

  49. Stick to ur kind asian guys you won’t have kids looking like you with western girls but they sure are drop dead gorgeous which I can’t blame Asians getting attracted to them

  50. Modernist, why do people make videos like this to spread multiculturalism.

  51. I hate to break it to you gay asian boy, but she doesn’t like your looks. She likes your money. You’re nothing without your money.

  52. I'm Thai/Lao.
    I'm to gangster for most you white girls. But.
    I found God when I was 5 months locked in immigration jail facing deportation 😭 after the 2nd month everyone stopped picking up their phones. Someone I loved so much turned to the enemy and no support. I cried so many nights 20 hr lockdowns and eating potatoes and 1 hot dog every other day…. but I became a Christian in my darkness and God spoke to me. He said "I Am Here Son" so loud and clear it spoke my spirit. I prayed for my favorite my to watch with my kids and it came to my jail unit which is "Alpha Unit" if you want to hear the rest of my testimony it's on my page. Thank you Jesus I Love you so much.

  53. See I'm american .. Asian american men are the least desired & less appealing to all American women … Including the finest Asian American women who prefer men outside their race. Simple fact Asians don't thrive in Hollywood or modeling industry.

  54. SOME white, black, latino girl/women do LIKE/LOVE asian men. It is an individual personal preference.

  55. This video help me realize the way im and gotta move towards to find a perfect relationship with white girl. im attractive to White girl and Asian girl

  56. Asian men and European women propaganda love movie made by 1937. This is a Japanese men and Nazi women love story hahahah

  57. So many female friends who I know, said that the Asian guys at they did it at the time had a smaller you know what. They all pretty much prefer black guys. 💯 🤷🏿‍♂️ 👍

  58. I’m only watching this bc I’m Asian from Pakistan and I want to marry a white girl with adorable smile and body. People at school bully my skin colour calling it grey when it was really nice white/brown. I love this video. Keep it up

  59. I would say yes. White girls do like Asian guys. In fact many white girls are open to dating Asian guys it’s just that many Asian men have this mentality that white girls don’t like them which isn’t true. Race shouldn’t matter and it all goes down to character. It’s just that Asian men, Black men and other men of color have to work harder to attract white women.

  60. I’m white but I’ve always been attracted to any race. I don’t think it should really matter but everybody has their preferences.

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